Despite having seven kids between them, Tiny andT.I.‘s Father’s Day wasn’t all that celebratory.

Afterrebounding from a near-divorcelast year, the pair seemed to have taken a step back over the weekend, as they each posted pointed Instagrams to their accounts — but never directly addressed one another. Hours later, video surfaced online that appeared to show T.I. slapping the backside of another woman at his show on Friday night.

T.I. posted this to Instagram with a lengthy caption that included these words, “Note to women: Happiness needs no validation…. The Ego does. Most women out there nowadays just wanna be married to impress they friends, family (his side pieces) and fit into society’s standards. THAT’S NOT LOVE!!!”

The reality star’s wife, Tameka “Tiny” Cottle, 42, didn’t respond to her husband’s post, but later posted a video clip to her own account that appeared to be a rebuttal. The video featured rapperSnoop Dogg, who has been married for 20 years, discussing how strong women — his wife in particular — help him stay sane and successful — and says it’s the case for other married rappers as well.

Tiny captioned the video, “Crown the KING who knows that his QUEEN is the most important piece on the board.”

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That night, a fan backstage at T.I.’s concert in Indiana took a Snapchat video showing a man who appears to be T.I. slapping the butt of an unidentified woman. The man then put his arm around her and kissed her neck. Reps for T.I. did not respond to PEOPLE’s request for comment regarding the situation.

On Sunday, Tinyposted a throwback pictureon Father’s Day of herself with her father, as well as an Instagram story post featuring her and T.I.’s 2-year-old daughter, Heiress, along with the text, “Happy Father’s Day to all the amazing Dads.” Neither post mentioned T.I.

For his part, T.I.shared a photo of himselfwith their teenage daughter Deyjah, wishing her a happy 17th birthday.

source: people.com