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Common and Tiffany Haddish

Tiffany Haddishis using advice from a fan to fan the flames of passion!

“She said she was single and she gave meall the tips that she wish somebodywould have told her when she was dating [and] when she got married … that would have probably made her marriage last longer and would have made it easier for her,” says Haddish, 41.

Some of the fan’s standout advice? " ‘Whenyou have an argument with him, express how you feel. You don’t got to scream at him, but express how you feel and then shut up,’ " she recalls, as well as, " ‘Don’t walk around naked — make him work for it.’ "

“She’s like, ‘Always wear a nightgown to bed. Never go to bed naked — make him work to see you naked,’ " Haddish adds.

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Common and Tiffany Haddish

Of whether she has tried out any of the fan’s tips, Haddish jokes, “I have been using some of the nuggets and I think they’re working.”

This year, she and Common, 48, aren’t planning to make a huge deal out ofValentine’s Day, as it’s not something she usually celebrates in the traditional sense.

“I’m not going to let society tell me what day I’m supposed to be loving on somebody,” says theGirls Tripstar. “If somebody’s supposed to be loving on me, that needs to happen on a daily basis.”

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Right now, the coupleis seeing each other abouttwo to three times a week due to the rapper’s busy schedule as he works on his next album.

“But we talk every day,” Haddish says. “We’re always FaceTiming and checking in with each other and making sure we’re doing good.”

“It’s funnybecause when we do get together… you know [when] how you haven’t seen your bestie in a long time?” she adds. “He’ll be like, ‘This gets on my nerves when you do this.’ And we’re laughing about it.”

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source: people.com