Billy Corgandoes not hide his past from his children.The Smashing Pumpkins frontman and father of two, 56, got personal onREINVENTED with Jen Eckhartin a candid conversation spanning his journey from childhood to fatherhood.In a PEOPLE-exclusive first look at his podcast appearance, the “1979” crooner confirmed thathis fatheronce told him that the abuse he suffered as a kid was “good” because it “made [him] a better rock star.”“Yes, that’s a quote,” he told host Jen Eckhart, adding, “It’s pretty funny, if you think about it.”Chloe Mendel, Billy Corgan and their kids, Augustus and Philomena.Chloe Mendel Corgan/ InstagramReflecting on the way his own childhood has influenced his parenting, Corgan said, “I absolutely believe in the concept of generational trauma.”“I mean, much of what we were taught or not taught or we went through as children — my brother and I — I think was the result of what our parents had been taught or not taught,” he said, adding that it’s “simple math.”“Even down to the concept of ‘Yeah, I’m hitting you, but I’m hitting you less than I was hit,’ so this is better,” he said, adding that he has “heard that” from a parent before.On whether he and wifeChloe Mendeldiscuss their past struggles and traumas with their children — son Augustus, 8, and daughter Philomena, 5 — the singer said, “We do talk about it occasionally.”“In fact, I was talking to my son this morning about certain things that are sort of loosely related to what you asked,” Corgan said, adding that his philopsophy is to “dole it out where appropriate.”Chloe Mendel, Billy Corgan and their kids, Augustus and Philomena.Chloe Mendel Corgan/ Instagram“For example, I told my children some stories about where my father had beat my brother and I, and my kids being kids turned that into a story that my daddy was bad, like what kids do, like he’s a villain in a superhero movie,” Corgan told Eckhart.He continued, “We were driving down the road one day and my daughter started saying something about my father being bad or me not liking my father or something, and I said, ‘No, no. I love my dad. I love my father.’”The “Today” crooner said he thinks it’s “important” to try to give children “a balanced sense of the conflict in that.”“That you give them — as much as they are capable of understanding at the age of 8 and 5 — let’s call it the quantum aspect of how you can both love and have issues with someone in your life,” he added. “That it’s not so simple as dividing the world into good guys and bad guys.”Never miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.Elsewhere in theREINVENTEDepisode, Corgan opened up about addiction, and how it has manifested itself in his life in an atypical way — at least for his profession.Billy Corgan (left) performing with his band, The Smashing Pumpkins, in Michigan in September 2023.Scott Legato/GettyThe “Zero” rocker said he used to tell himself he was “lucky” he didn’t get addicted to “those things” while simultaneously developing addictions to “other things that you could argue were just as caustic to my life.”“I don’t think I staved off addiction, I think I staved off the primary addictions that most people associate with being a musician,” he said. “But it doesn’t mean there weren’t other addictions, including my need to consistently work, much to my detriment.”REINVENTED with Jen Eckhartis available now.If you suspect child abuse, call the Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline at 1-800-4-A-Child or 1-800-422-4453, or go to www.childhelp.org. All calls are toll-free and confidential. The hotline is available 24/7 in more than 170 languages.If you or someone you know is struggling with substance abuse, please contact the SAMHSA helpline at 1-800-662-HELP.
Billy Corgandoes not hide his past from his children.
The Smashing Pumpkins frontman and father of two, 56, got personal onREINVENTED with Jen Eckhartin a candid conversation spanning his journey from childhood to fatherhood.
In a PEOPLE-exclusive first look at his podcast appearance, the “1979” crooner confirmed thathis fatheronce told him that the abuse he suffered as a kid was “good” because it “made [him] a better rock star.”
“Yes, that’s a quote,” he told host Jen Eckhart, adding, “It’s pretty funny, if you think about it.”
Chloe Mendel, Billy Corgan and their kids, Augustus and Philomena.Chloe Mendel Corgan/ Instagram
Chloe Mendel Corgan/ Instagram
Reflecting on the way his own childhood has influenced his parenting, Corgan said, “I absolutely believe in the concept of generational trauma.”
“I mean, much of what we were taught or not taught or we went through as children — my brother and I — I think was the result of what our parents had been taught or not taught,” he said, adding that it’s “simple math.”
“Even down to the concept of ‘Yeah, I’m hitting you, but I’m hitting you less than I was hit,’ so this is better,” he said, adding that he has “heard that” from a parent before.
On whether he and wifeChloe Mendeldiscuss their past struggles and traumas with their children — son Augustus, 8, and daughter Philomena, 5 — the singer said, “We do talk about it occasionally.”
“In fact, I was talking to my son this morning about certain things that are sort of loosely related to what you asked,” Corgan said, adding that his philopsophy is to “dole it out where appropriate.”
“For example, I told my children some stories about where my father had beat my brother and I, and my kids being kids turned that into a story that my daddy was bad, like what kids do, like he’s a villain in a superhero movie,” Corgan told Eckhart.
He continued, “We were driving down the road one day and my daughter started saying something about my father being bad or me not liking my father or something, and I said, ‘No, no. I love my dad. I love my father.’”
The “Today” crooner said he thinks it’s “important” to try to give children “a balanced sense of the conflict in that.”
“That you give them — as much as they are capable of understanding at the age of 8 and 5 — let’s call it the quantum aspect of how you can both love and have issues with someone in your life,” he added. “That it’s not so simple as dividing the world into good guys and bad guys.”
Never miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.
Elsewhere in theREINVENTEDepisode, Corgan opened up about addiction, and how it has manifested itself in his life in an atypical way — at least for his profession.
Billy Corgan (left) performing with his band, The Smashing Pumpkins, in Michigan in September 2023.Scott Legato/Getty
Scott Legato/Getty
The “Zero” rocker said he used to tell himself he was “lucky” he didn’t get addicted to “those things” while simultaneously developing addictions to “other things that you could argue were just as caustic to my life.”
“I don’t think I staved off addiction, I think I staved off the primary addictions that most people associate with being a musician,” he said. “But it doesn’t mean there weren’t other addictions, including my need to consistently work, much to my detriment.”
REINVENTED with Jen Eckhartis available now.
If you suspect child abuse, call the Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline at 1-800-4-A-Child or 1-800-422-4453, or go to www.childhelp.org. All calls are toll-free and confidential. The hotline is available 24/7 in more than 170 languages.
If you or someone you know is struggling with substance abuse, please contact the SAMHSA helpline at 1-800-662-HELP.
source: people.com
